
Well we are pretty much all unpacked from our trip to Florida. Hard to believe that last year at this time we were swimming OUTSIDE in a pool. I think Michigan weather SUCKS! But it's where our home is, our family and are friends are here and for about 6 months out of the year the weather is good. While in Florida Nate and I pondered moving there. What would it be like, could we handle being away from everyone. We came up with the decision that NOPE we aren't ready to move even if it does mean warm weather and sunshine a majority of the time.
One thing that our trip did was gave us back a huge feeling of "Family". Sometimes we get so caught up in the day to day stuff that we forget why we are really put on this earth together. I think the four of us really came together in a way we never had before. I feel like I got back to my roots on why I wanted to be a Mother. To see your kids so happy and excited and just enjoying life is something that I think I became a little desensitized too back here. This trip was a gift to my children of pure FUN! We were able to just have fun, I wasn't worried about all the monotonous things I do around the house instead of spending time with them. I really hope to implement that now that we are home. To not spend so much time worrying about all the little things and to find "The Fun" no matter where we are.
For Nate I think our trip really helped him with his "anxiety" over the boys behavior out in public. They were very well behaved and learned how to behave while dining out, having patience while waiting their turn and just having confidence in his ability to block out what other people are thinking about our kids while we are out and about. It was great to see him so at ease and not worrying about what "might" happen.
The boys got SOOOO Much closer over the past month. They shared a room in Florida and insisted that they share a room once we got home so we moved Parker into Sam's room and now Parks old room is a playroom. They seemed to laugh more, they would giggle over inside jokes and make up crazy words. It is fabulous to see what great friends they are becoming.
Parker was probably the most homesick of all four of us. He struggled with not being in his comfort zone and away from his toys, his beds and just his usual surroundings. After the first week he seemed to settle in very well. He LOVED meeting Aunt Ruth, Uncle Jack and Peppy. He talks about them often! He loves people, gets VERY excited to try something new but I think at times his emotions get the best of him and he either burns out or becomes over-stimulated. It's a toss up between Dinosaur World and Magic Kingdom as to what Parker enjoyed the most but whatever he did he would talk about it for days afterwards.
Sam REALLY came out of his shell in Florida. He seemed to love everything about being there. He ate better, he slept better, he whined less and talked more than he ever has. He also really seemed to battle through some of his biggest fears while we were there. He became a lot less fearful of things and seemed to be more daring and outgoing. It was awesome to see him kick butt in situations where he may have cowered in fear previously. Sam will always be more sensitive than most but darn it he has really learned to stand up for himself and I LOVE THAT! He was very scared of the water and before and by the end of the trip was swimming by himself with his life jacket on. He used to shy away from theme park rides or even riding the horse by himself at the mall carousel and by the end of the trip he was jumping right on and afterwards he would say " Aren't I so brave" ADORABLE!
This trip has been such a blessing for our family and we have made memories that we will never forget!