

13 years ago today, March 21st 1997 (wow I'm old) I went on my first date with my husband.
People always ask married couples "when did you know that you wanted to spend the rest of your life together". Did I know that day that we would be where we are now? NOPE! However, I knew that there was something about him that I really liked and I needed to get to know him better. I think of all the reasons why it may not have worked out. I remember thinking "Am I a little too wild for him" Ha!!! Just being honest. Like ya'll didn't ever think that too!!! He was so straight laced and conservative.....It was a struggle in the beginning, him living in Kalamazoo, working full time and going to school full time. We were so young, I still lived with my parents and just started a fun job and was traveling all the time.
It's hard to remember the people we were back then because we have basically spent most of our "adult" life together. I have toned down SOME Of the wildness, Nate has become a very confident businessman. ( he is so going to kill me for typing that, but its true) I wonder some times if we met today if we would still "choose" eachother. I like to think that we would. I think its just so different meeting your spouse and getting married at a young age because you pretty much grow up together. We still sometimes look at eachother and laugh and say "Can you believe WE are parents and have two kids".
I think having kids has changed our relationship so much more than I ever imagined. Some good, some bad. I do some days wish that we were still young, having our whole life ahead of us. It was a lot easier back then, we spent so much more time together, laughing, talking, gosh we would talk for HOURS and HOURS about anything and everything. But then I look at the boys, I think of all the things we have accomplished, all the experiences we have had together, All the history.......
I will never forget that first date, the butterflies and the nerves. Wish I could travel back and eavesdrop on the conversations we had, now that would be hilarious!!!
The date March 21st will always be a special date for Nate and I. It was the beginning of our journey to becoming an "us". A day worth remembering!!!